If you’ve ever seen a romantic comedy film, chances are you have seen a man speaks unreliable Best. You know insulted … girlfriend … angry boyfriend … silent room stunned and awkward Best man desperate to find the right words to solve it. The fine for movies but in real life after will last over 97 minutes.

To make a good Best Man speech, everything possible to get away from the 7 most common mistakes found in the Rom-Com-type situations. I call them the 7 deadly sins, as there are 7 big no-no and the consequences can be very disastrous.

# 1 cardinal sin: Insulting the bride

Well, you’d think it would be obvious, but the fact of sin is death # 1 means that unfortunately for the bride, groom and all reasonable results in the room, is more common error than you think. Remember, always, that the bride is the star. (Yes, put aside thoughts she marries his best friend!).

Definitely not say anything which potentially insulting or negative about the bride, even if I do. There is a time and place for everything … But this definately does not is it!

In short, they say nothing about the boyfriend who insult or embarrass the bride. Talking about past indiscretions is a no-no. No matter how funny you thinks he is, remember … never insult or embarrass the bride.

Deadly Sin # 2: Improvising

A few words right here … There is a joke … and a toast … Right? Wrong! Do not confuse the job of giving the best man speech as a man speaks age. Your best man speech is intended to summarize the first phase of the lives of their friends, and make way for the next phase. It is impossible to give this the credit it deserves, without having at least one plan or framework to follow.

Do not risk being humiliated, and totally disappointing, the boyfriend and girlfriend, trying to think on their feet. Simply not work. Prepare your speech and, please, practice … aloud.

Deadly Sin # 3: rambling

Another good reason to prepare your speech and practice is to avoid digressing … and … and. A short speech is stronger than A retrospective of 20 minutes. You are your best button, you can chat later. The guests are there because of the Bride and Groom, not to listen all night.

Guests want to eat, drink and be merry, not hear about all the bad habits, drunken episode, or how much it has helped since the first time they met. Know when to stop is essential. As such, to avoid digressing … and … and, let’s go to the next mortal sin.

# 4 mortal sin: trying to be a comedian.

If you are a comic genius, be yourself. If you’re not even going there … again, be yourself. Stay true to your personality style was good enough to the boyfriend to ask him to be best man. Just go with it. Guaranteed, the groom will not wait to suddenly become a different person with different personalities just for the sake of getting a prize-winning comedy of discourse. That is not the purpose of man best speech. You seem difficult, and obvious and down-right uncomfortable trying to be something they are not.

Not only will it embarrass the bride and fiance, embarrass yourself … and which have immortalized on DVD to play again and again!

By avoiding these, will not provide the Rom-Com film writers the future with new material. You must also have a very happy bride and groom … and maybe one day, you may just get asked to be godfather again!

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